How to perform oral sex on a man

Performing oral sex on a man can be one of the most pleasing moments in a relationship. It can deepen a relationship and even persuade your Mr. Right to do just about anything. However, despite what porn says, performing oral sex on a man is not something that just comes naturally. It can be done wrong or uncomfortably for both of you. It can also be done in a manner that brings you both immense joy and pleasure. With a bit of forward thinking, you can make oral sex easy and enjoyable.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Step 1

   Rub his penis through his pants. Touching his private parts through his clothing before actually making skin to skin contact will start arousal and sexual tension at a high level. This will almost guarantee an erection and will quicken the inevitable ejaculation.

2. Step 2

   Pull it from the zipper. Removing his penis slowly will build a large amount of anticipation. Building such anticipation will increase his sexual desire to a point that he can barely stand it. He knows oral sex is coming. The longer it takes to get there, the shorter the actual act will take.

3. Step 3

   Clean it slowly. Because the penis can be a source of urine and bacteria, feel free to clean it with a soft and wet cloth. However, by doing it slowly, you can make it part of your love making and less of a hygienic pause in your sexual act.

4. Step 4

   Apply syrup or cream if necessary. The taste of a penis is not for everyone. Add some syrup or whip cream to the member to aid in its taste. Bring whatever you use to heighten the taste of the penis to room temperature. If it's right out the fridge, it will be cold and will cause an instant loss of arousal.

5. Step 5

   Lick the shaft slowly. Let your tongue run up and down the penis. Think of it as a lollipop. Let your tongue massage it and embrace it. Let your licks be slow and strong, putting actual force to the member.

6. Step 6

   Suck the testicles. Placing suction on the testicles will put an amazing amount of pressure on his balls. This will cause even more tension on his genitals. Be as gentle as possible because the testicles are very tender.

7. Step 7

   Place the shaft in your mouth. This is referred to as "going down." Place the shaft in your mouth and go down on the penis. Use your neck to go up and down. Only take as much as you can. Gagging can be an uncomfortable experience and can cause vomiting.