How to Make Sex Fun To Last Longer In Bed

Last Longer in bed

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Lots of women complaint that men rush into sex. They go straight for the breasts and vagina leaving over 90% of their partner's body unexplored. This article will give you a blueprint for having pleasurable sex while taking care of each others needs. It is not a fix all solution but it should get your brain going into exploring ways to make sex fun again for both of you.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Partner
• toys - if desired
• Patience

1. Step 1

   Shower - Besides the obvious reasons for showering before sex, showering together can be lots of fun. It also helps take away the anxiety men that suffer from premature ejaculation feel before sex. Your bodies will be relaxed and clean for each other. Do not go into penetration sex here; this time should be used to explore each others bodies. Use lots of touching, massaging, and do not rush out of the bathroom.
   
   Guys, run your fingers through her hair and slowly massage her scalp then run your fingers down to the back of neck and give her a gentle but firm massage. Her body language will let you know which parts of her body are more susceptible to your touch. Remember those parts for when you go back to the bedroom.

2. Step 2
   
   
   

   Now that you are both clean and relax it is time to jump into the bed. Remember that her entire body wants you; do not concentrate just on her breasts and vagina. By exploring both your bodies you get to know your partner's body in a more intimate way. Look for those spots that really get her going. Do not be afraid to ask but don't turn it into an interview. Run your hands down his body caressing his **** without inducing ejaculation. The point here is to play with each other using toys, fingers, hands, and tongue. It is important for both of you to control your breathing; it is especially important for guys to breath deeply and regularly or you will come quickly.
   Oral sex is a very important of a healthy sex; enjoy it with rush.

3. Step 3

   By now you both are in heaven. You are literary all over each other and are ready for penetration. This is where most guys get in trouble as they lose track of how their bodies are feeling and ejaculate too quickly ending the fun.
   
   Sexual positioning is crucial here. The missionary position should be the last position you do since it usually makes men ejaculate quickly. Start by having her on top. Start slowly, control your breathing and give each other signals of when to go deep, when to thrust faster, and when to stop.
   
   It is very important for the men to know when he is reaching the point of no return and to stop way before he reaches that point. It takes seconds for a guy to come from the time he realizes he's about to burst.
   
   Change positions when you feel you are getting ready to finish; the time it takes to change positions should be enough for the **** to relax without losing the erection. Go back to foreplay if needed.

4. Step 4

   Hopefully you both are enjoying each other and are having a blast putting into practice these tips and techniques. When done, stay awhile and kiss and talk or just hold each other. This is also important so as not to make the other person feel used. The greatest part of this is that you can practice time after time with new positions, new toys or new places. Enjoy!